A door? You can walk out of it!

Hello everybody! I hope that all of you beautiful and handsome people are doing well in whatever it is that you're doing. So here's just something that i read on tumblr and suddenly, i had a thought of making it my blog topic for the night.

I'm sure everyone has their fair of people walking in and out of your lives. But i'm sure that there is always that one person who has chose to walk out but you just want him/her to stay. Here's my advice, but its probably not gonna be the best one:

"and if they want to leave, hold the door open for them."

Not the best advice, but its one of the best things that i read tonight. Because to be honest, when someone wants to leave, there's little to nothing that you can say to make them stay. Save your little sad excuses or promises and hold the door wide open for them to walk out. 

I mean, we've all gone through the whiny phase of wanting someone to keep being in our lives even though they've made up their mind to walk out and leave. And we've all stood in front of the door, blocking their way out. 

But let me ask a serious question, "After you cried, begged, sobbed, screamed and do whatever it is that you did, did they ever change their minds? Have they actually chose to stay instead?"

So let's all be realistic, that advice up there is partly useful somehow. We won't stop from having the urge to stop them from leaving, but eventually, we'll realise its better if we just let them go.